James, I think your approach to smithing is taking the right course...patience, look, listen, read, and learn. You have gotten some good advice on many matters so far. One I particularly would reinforce is the tong issue. Even though I've never used them, CMS3900 had a good recommendation regarding the Ken's tongs. Better to start with one or two inexpensive, usable, fully functional, well made tongs to work with rather than be frustrated with (1) trying to successfully make your first set and (2) not having tongs that will work as designed. Then, as you progress, make tongs that suit your needs. You will bugger up some of the first, but then that goes along with the learning process. Happy forging!