I myself am still what I would consider new to blacksmithing. I have asked a question (or two????) that didn't receive the response expected by me. But I have realized that the majority of them, while seeming a bit condescending/harsh were still intended to be helpful. As to the statements about sharing knowledge, ... the amount of time it takes to frustratedly point out to someone that they didn't ask as simple of a question as they thought is quite often much less than the time it would take to answer the full range of possibilities a "simple" question may cover. As to the plethora of cautions thrown out... think of it this way, if someone supplied an answer that fit the question asked(but not necessarily the intent the asker had) and someone used their suggestion and got hurt, don't you think they would feel bad? People don't offer cautions out of mean-spiritedness, but out of concern. One final comment, even if you thought some of the people were being gruff, they were still being willing to freely share their knowledge and time (which is far from free for most things)... that is until it reached a point where it seemed their time wasn't being held in regard. Now it appears you may have lost access to some VERY valuable sources of information/experience.