You can't blame 'kid's these days' for wanting to have things handed to them. You blame society and their parents for raising them to expect that.
I work in an industry in a very busy place where we have a hard time hiring and keeping good staff. Our local construction association held a seminar that explained a LOT to me when it focussed on generational differences. What we are having problems with (as are most of the people who are complaining about youth in this thread) seemed to be that they don't know how to relate to Generation Y.
The presenter explained the general characteristics of each generation. When she got to Generation Y, she said that almost all the major events that had media coverage of their youth were tragedies (terrorist attacks, mass shootings etc.). Parents tend to try to protect their youth more and do more for them. They arrange the kid's entire schedule for them, they attend every event, and they provide constant feedback. Parents are now perpetually hovering over their kids. This is a generalization that does not hold true to all kids, but it can be applied to many.
You are not going to change society. If you are having problems with the way some members are asking for information, you have some options. You can ignore it, get mad about it, or change the way YOU approach it. If you think it is bad now just wait until Generation Z starts to blacksmith.
The negative attitudes of some members is the main reason why I don't come to IFI as much anymore. There is enough miserable stuff going on in the world, I don't need it in my hobbies too.