Hey Colleen,
Sorry to hear that you had surgery. First and most important is that you are in my prayers.
Our house is no stranger to surgeries and I can tell you from experience with my wife, do as the Drs tell you. Don't push the work or the time to heal. Listed to your physical therapist.
One of the biggest blessings that someone can get is to help another person. So when people offer to help you, do not rob them of being able to help you.
My wife is one that would rather do it herself and that usually has adverse effects on her healings.
So take it easy, let others help you, heal quickly.
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