I have an opinion on this topic that not many have. Most people tell young people to find what you love and do it. I say, do something you like that supports what you love. If you do what you love it becomes work. Everyone I know that ‘does what they love’ has mixed feelings as you have expressed. It is not so much doing it everyday. It is the having to do it everyday to survive. It is the dealing with clients on the mundane. It is the never having time to fulfill your own dreams because you are trying so hard to fulfill someone else’s.
While in college my love used to be in a field of work that included metal and creativity. I was working for myself when I had a wealthy client that wished to invest in my business. It would have meant quitting school and taking the business seriously. It sounded great at first. Yet I had seen others try the same. I knew that if I could make enough money elsewhere, I could do my loves without the having to deal with what was mentioned above. So, I stayed in school, and I have been happy with my decision. I might be happier though if I would have picked a profession that supported my loves better.
I have a friend that is another example. He grew up in the country and loved the outdoors. He loved the woods and roaming large tracts of land. He had dreams of lots of land of his own. So went to school for his love, and became a forester. He now manages other people’s property and cannot afford any land for himself. He, himself has said he should have chosen another profession he liked that would allow him to support his love of the outdoors.
I know there are people who do what they love with no regrets. I know this does not work for everybody, but I think it would for most. Also I want to make clear that I am not advocating doing something you hate. There are lots of things and individual can like. I like my job very much. But I would not call it a love. Just my 2 cents.