What I started with and still use often, instead of tongs, are vice grips. They were invented by a Dewitt, NE blacksmith about 1910 who was tired of dropping hot iron on his feet. Get the real Vice Grip brand, not the cheap Chinese ones. Also, get the ones that are marked Dewitt, Nebraska. The family owned Vice Grip Company sold out to a Canadian firm some years ago and the Canadians closed the Nebraska plant and moved production to China, cheaper costs, more profit, and blew the economy of a small mid-western town to xxxx and gone. Personally, I refuse to buy the new ones made overseas.
As an old geologist, I have to disagree with the notion that air blast has much to do with how much clinker you have to deal with in a coal forge. Clinker is the portion of the coal that is incombustible, also known as ash content. It will vary from coal field to coal field and sometimes between particular seams in an individual field. The best coal for blacksmithing is one that has a good coking ability since that is what we are actually burning. I think that many of the poor experiences that people have had with coal forges result from not using a good coking coal and not understanding how to manage a coal fire. You say that you are a Forged in Fire fan. You will recall how some of the folk have had a very hard time heating their steel when they are required to use a coal forge.
Also, if you are setting up your shop in close proximity to neighbors consider using coke instead of coal. It produces little, if any, smoke and odor. However, you have to keep an air blast to it all the time or the fire will die out. You can leave it for a few minutes to go into the house and get a cold beverage or attend to bio needs but if you take time to eat lunch your fire will be out when you return. If you are using an electric blower you may be able to leave it on low. I have just gotten used to having to turn the crank every few minutes if I am working on the bench.
PS As an old Viet Nam infantryman on this Memorial Day weekend I will tell you to stay safe and keep your head down. Stay out of harm's way.