I've played with smithing for years, but now that I have a 9-year-old son, I have someone to entertain with it. We mostly make sharp things (marshmallow sticks, nails, spikes) or melt soft metals in the forge and make ingots that end up cluttering our house. Probably my greatest smithing achievement was getting five kids and their parents in the backyard and teaching them all to point round stock, which we then used to roast marshmallows over a campfire. (This included a 10-year-old girl and two moms.)
I figure every experience I create for my son and his friends where they interact with real materials is a huge deal since they spend most of their time looking at screens. We play a lot with fire. I let them watch some stuff burn (wood, leaves, garbage) and other stuff melt (solder, scrap aluminum or glass). They learn about real matter in a way that most kids don't, so even if our hooks are skewed and our handles are lopsided, I think it's a good thing (if not the safest.)
Personally, I want to get more controlled with my smithing. I only have a handful of successful forgewelds under my belt, and thirty times as many failed welds. And I often lose heats before I manage to get the right grip with my tongs and move any metal the way I intended to. I don't have a shop, just a back yard setup, but I've decided to leave it set up and risk rust/theft in order to have it at the ready so I can forge on short notice when I have a bit of time rather than making a huge production of it just a few times a year. Now we're forging every couple of weekends, and I'm getting decidedly better. I'm not coordinated or strong to begin with, so repetition helps.
It's late and I'm rambling. Thanks for hosting this forum. I hope to learn a lot from everyone.